For women rebuilding after survival, loss, and disruption.

This is a space for women who have survived something that changed them.

Not to fix themselves.
Not to rush healing.
Not to perform resilience.

But to rebuild honestly, with clarity, boundaries, and self-trust.

WHAT THIS IS

The Better Ex-Wife is a body of work exploring what comes after survival.

After the leaving.
After the loss.
After the moment you realize the life you were building no longer fits who you are.

This work is rooted in lived experience and grounded reflection.
It centers identity, grief, boundaries, and the slow work of coming back to yourself without self-abandonment.

HOW THE WORK LIVES HERE

This work takes shape across three connected formats.

Writing
Personal essays on survival, motherhood, grief, and becoming.
Written to survive, not to perform healing.

Speaking
Grounded talks and curated experiences for women ready to reclaim authority, voice, and self-trust without spectacle.

The Podcast
A quiet, steady space for reflection and integration.
Conversations for women navigating what comes after survival.

Each format offers a different way into the same work.

WHO THIS IS FOR

This space is for women who:

• have spent years surviving and are ready to live differently

• are done explaining, proving, or justifying their boundaries

• want language for what changed and permission to move forward on their own terms

This is not a space for quick fixes or forced optimism.
It is a space for steadiness, clarity, and self-loyalty.

A NOTE ON HEALING

You don’t need to rush your healing.
You don’t need to arrive anywhere.

Healing here is not about erasing what happened.
It is about integration, choice, and learning how to live without abandoning yourself.

WHERE TO BEGIN

If you’re drawn to language and reflection, begin with the writing.
If you’re seeking shared experience and perspective, the podcast offers a place to listen and sit with what’s true.
If you’re ready for collective work and embodiment, speaking engagements offer deeper exploration.

Take what lands.
Leave what doesn’t.

This work exists to walk with you as you rebuild.

Slowly.
Honestly.
And on your own terms.